Membranophones: Skin Stretched Over A Frame
A membranophone's sound comes from a stretched membrane — skin, plastic, whatever's tight and thin — vibrating over a resonating cavity. Almost everything you'd call "a drum" lives here.
Struck
Hand or stick hits the head directly: the snare drum, the djembe, the timpani (which is also tunable — the head's tension can be adjusted mid-piece, unusual for the family).
Friction and singing membranes
Rub a stick or a wetted thumb against the membrane instead of striking it, and you get the cuica's distinctive yelp, or the lion's-roar drum's groan. The membrane doesn't just get hit — it can be dragged into sound.
Kazoo — the impostor in the family
The kazoo has a membrane, and technically it's a membranophone, not a wind instrument — the player's voice buzzes the membrane, the membrane does the vibrating. It just borrows the shape of a wind instrument.