Screening Games

Designing a menu that makes the truth the easy choice

Three ideas, before anything else

  • screening
  • self-selection
  • incentive-compatible

Get these three straight now — the scenario in a minute uses all of them.

Screening

Instead of asking “are you serious about this?” — a question anyone would answer “yes” to — you build two different paths and watch which one people actually take.

Economists call the side doing the asking-without-asking the screener, and the act itself screening.

Self-selection

Nobody is sorted by a judge. People sort themselves, each choosing whatever path is actually best for their own situation — which is exactly what makes the sorting trustworthy.

That’s self-selection: the type reveals itself through the choice, not through a claim.

Incentive-compatible

A menu only works if the honest type genuinely prefers the option meant for them, and the dishonest type genuinely doesn’t want to copy it. If a casual dater would happily pick the “serious” option too, the menu hasn’t separated anyone.

That property is incentive compatibility — and it’s the whole game.

Two tiers, one app

TierCasualSerious
Pricefree$30/month
To joina few photosa long compatibility questionnaire
Who this favorssomeone not ready to invest timesomeone ready to invest time

Does it actually separate?

QuestionCasual userSerious user
Would they pay $30 for this?no — not worth it to themyes — worth it
Would they fill in the long form?no — too much effort for a maybeyes — they’d do it anyway
Which tier do they end up in?CasualSerious

The menu works because the “cost” of the serious tier is exactly the thing a casual user wouldn’t pay and a serious one would.

A screen that doesn’t work

Compare a “Verified” badge that only requires a selfie matching your profile photo. Anyone can take a selfie — casual and serious daters alike.

It costs nothing that correlates with actually being serious. It’s a badge, not a screen: it looks like screening but isn’t incentive-compatible.

A menu that everyone would choose the same way isn’t a screen. It’s decoration.

What today doesn’t settle

A working menu is, by this model’s standard, a success. It says nothing about what the honest type still had to pay to prove it — the serious dater still filled in the long form and paid the $30, just to be believed.

Week 12 is where this, and Weeks 1, 3, and 4’s gaps, all come back at once.

See you next week

Week 6: The Secretary Problem